Hit these 9 male erogenous zones to drive him wild… hopefully he’ll return the favour
While we’re are always on a mission to help you make your sex life better, it takes two to tango and hitting these nine male erogenous zones should have him clamouring to repay the favour.
Remember, the better his orgasms the more insentive he has to get you going.
Sexology researcher Dr Dany Cordeau is clear, even men enjoy a little warming up, here are nine ways to hit the spot.
Full-on kissing boosts levels of dopamine, a desire-spiking neurotransmitter in both men and women, notes a study in The American Journal of Medicine.
To get your other half going, trace his lips slowly with your tongue, or softly bite the edge of his lower lip with your teeth, says sexologist Carol Queen.
In a survey, ears ranked just behind the scrotum as a body part that, when touched, can help men reach their peak. Who knew?!
Try delicately nibbling or licking his ears as he’s getting closer to orgasm, while whispering, “Do you like it when I touch you?”
No biting or pinching, please: this area holds your man’s reproductive power, making it extra vulnerable to sharp impact. What is up its street? Gentle sucking, squeezing or cupping, which may help some men reach climax more easily during sex, says sex coach Charlie Glickman.
When it comes to foreplay, use this technique from Harwick: “Start with your hand around both balls, then bring your fingertips together over them – like you’re picking up a napkin off the floor.”
His neck is as tingle-triggering as your own, and a study published in the journal Ergonomics found that the nape loves low-frequency vibrations.
Take advantage by kissing the back of his neck with your mouth slightly open, and hum. “The combination of heat and vibrations will help prompt some serious sensations for him,” sex expert Emily Morse says.
Or dip into your toy drawer for a fingertip vibe and massage his hairline.
5/ PENIS SHAFT
Men rated the shaft tops for orgasmic sensitivity when compared with the rest of their nether regions, says a survey published in the journal BJU International.
Because the internal erectile tissues lie deep beneath the skin’s surface, many guys like the shaft handled pretty firmly. Form a fist around it, moving up and down and adding pressure as you go.
They’d like a little TLC, FYI. Men who were surveyed for a study in the journal Cortex admitted that the nips are one of their top hot spots.
Queen suggests sucking on one while stroking your man’s penis with your hand. “Adding the two erogenous zones together can be very pleasurable,” she says.
The head of the penis, or the glans, has significantly more nerves than the shaft, so don’t skimp on the attention. (The tip is basically the closest thing he has to a clitoris, though it’s not nearly as sensitive, says Cordeau. We win in that department.)
After coating your fingers in lube, “loop them into an O shape and slide them over the glans”, Queen advises. Then use short, slow pumps that tighten around the tip.
During oral, run your tongue all over the glans and use some soft suction.
Glickman calls the prostate gland (located a finger’s length inside the bum) the ‘male G-spot’ in his book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure.
To hit this orgasm-inducing region, you’ll need to insert a (well-lubricated) digit into your man’s behind, directed toward the front of his body, says Queen.
If neither you nor him is up for that, you can also stimulate the prostate by touching the perineum).
Located behind the scrotum and before his rear entry, this spot contains a gent’s ejaculatory muscles – which, when massaged, can make his blastoff feel even more intense, says Glickman.
Try Morse’s oral-sex trick: “Use your thumb to gently rub the perineum in a circular motion, keeping in rhythm with what your mouth is doing. Right before he is about to finish, press the spot firmly to give him an orgasm to top all orgasms.”
Then ask for anything you want.